Question: How do you get your ex back? I know it’s really difficult and embarrassing but I would do everything just to get him back. I’ve been reading books about how to get back your ex and it seems that now I have all the more courage to win my ex’s heart once again.
Answer: First, you really have to think it twice, thrice, or even four times on whether you really need your ex back. Do you need him back? Or do you just want him back? You have to be able to distinguish the difference here. If you realized that you really do need him back, then just try to talk it out with him. Tell him that if you could possibly give it another try. And ask if he’d consider doing the same too. Chances are, he might just consider it too especially if he still has feelings for you. Don’t be afraid to ask him. The worst he can say is no.
But if he tries to shove you away as you ask him this. Then don’t push it. An ex is an ex for a reason. Move on with your life. Forward and not backward. Find someone else who’s better than he is. You broke up for a reason and you shouldn’t want to go back to that. I’m sorry, This is probably not what you wanted to hear but we all know it’s true.
Especially when your relationship ended with hostility, then trying to get back with your ex would probably be next to impossible. Unless you do your best to reconcile with him and show him that you’ve changed. But some guys are maybe hard to please.
On the other hand, if you feel he might want to consider getting back with you, you could also try to go for counseling. I think even when you’re not married you can still go for online marriage counseling and seek help.